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Allowance for kids can be a touchy subject. First, there’s figuring out whether or not you should pay kids to do chores, or if you should just give an allowance.

And if you DO decide to pay for chores, you then have to figure things out like how much should you pay your child for chores (juggling their age, responsibilities, etc.), chore oversight, chore lists, and so much more.

There are all types of gurus telling you one way is the best (such as the Dave Ramsey Allowance system, which is purely chore-based).

Fortunately, I help guide you through each of these decisions so that you can pick the best allowance system for your child + your family, in a way that doesn’t make you want to pull your hair out.

But first up? I want to show you why giving an allowance is not giving your child a money lesson.

Allowances for Kids are Not Money Lessons

You read that right, Mama Bear.

Just giving children an allowance alone − whether from earning it through chores, projects, or handing it over − is not a money lesson that will make your child financially savvier than kids who never received an allowance at all.

And I'm not just saying that to grab your attention by scratching cross-grain.

There's real research to back it up.

Kids' allowance is not enough to teach money management.

The study where this information originally came from was by Professor Lewis Mandell, who looked through all of the allowance studies from the last 50 years and found a really crazy outcome: kids who received an allowance were actually LESS financially savvy than kids who did not.

EXCEPT − and this is a B.I.G. exception − when parents gave a child allowance + talked with their kids about managing their new money.

Now THOSE were the kids who moved ahead in money-savviness.

Kinda shocking research, right?

I mean, before pouring through a Library of Congress-sized room of research, I would've thought that kids who received an allowance would be about three rungs up on the ladder from kids who never got to touch the green stuff.

And in case you’re questioning the information, know that T. Rowe Price found something similarly convincing about the importance of money conversations on top of allowances in their 2014 Kids & Money Survey.

According to their results, Teachable Money Moments are über important (the kind that get sparked by my free, fun Money Conversation Starters for kids.

Having said all that, an allowance can be one of the best ways to teach your kids about money. That is, along as you have an allowance system.

You Need More than an Allowance – You Need an Allowance System

The research is in. We both know an allowance alone is not going to cut it.

And I want you to knock teaching your child about money out of Minute Maid Park (any Houstonians here?)!

To do that, you need an entire system that ties your money goals for your child into its very design so that they can self-discover critical money lessons. It’s like creating your own money incubator!

Soooo…ready to not only get your allowance system together (I call it your Kid Money System), but to actually tie it around the money goals that you have for your child so that it naturally teaches them money management?

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Should Kids Get an Allowance?

I had an interesting conversation with a Work at Home Mother of a 9-year old + twins under 2. I asked her about her kid money system (aka, if she gave her kid an allowance, did she use chores to pay commissions, or does her child otherwise have money of his own to spend). Because I feel it's so important to teach kids about money, I'm always curious to hear what others say.

She responded with something like, “I will give him money when I can answer the question, what does my 9-year old child need money FOR?”

I totally got what she was saying, and at the same time really wanted to address this one. So, here we go!

Have you ever wondered, “should kids get allowance…” or any money for that matter?

Today I’d like to talk about what the heck a 9-year old, 8-year old, or fill-in-the-blank year-old needs money for.

First off, what do kids NOT need money for?

Because I can certainly tell you what they DON’T need money for (and I’m sure you can, too): they don’t need money for another box of Pokémon cards. They don’t need a dime for more candy. And they certainly don’t need money to spend on snackie-type foods at lunchtime instead of the awesome lunch you are probably making them.

Here’s what your kids need money for:

  • to make choices, face the consequences
  • to learn from the mistakes + successes
  • to repeat this process

You see, all those things I just said they don’t need more money for? Those were judgment calls made by me, a 35-year old with a heck of a lot of experience with money + purchasing things + budgeting.

But your child? They have almost no experience with it. Especially if they don’t actually get to touch the stuff.

They don’t know about trade-offs, that making a decision to buy one thing means they have less to buy something else.

They don’t know the power of its value from doing something like not spending it all in one week, and watching it accumulate to the next week, several weeks, or even month.

They don’t know what it means to work 8 hours at a job just to pay for that pair of designer leggings they’ve got their eye on, nor do they have the wisdom yet to do the calculation and decide if it’s actually “worth” it.

By handling actual money and having some control (within a controlled environment) to spend it as they please, they’re going to get a taste of each of these things: trade-offs, understanding the value of money, decision-making in general, and budgeting.

Keep them moneyless? And the stakes just get higher and higher the older they get to get their money decisions right the first time.

And, let’s be honest, how many of us have gotten OUR money decisions right the first time?

What is the Average Allowance for Kids?

I’m going to give you the average allowance for kids, or the “going rate”, so that you have some guidelines to go by.

But first, I want to tell you that when it comes to figuring out how much money to give your child for allowances:

You should keep your eyes on your own paper.

Many parents look to other parents to see how much they’re paying their kids. But here’s the thing: the amount you pay your child has several variables involved to figure out, one of them being what money responsibilities you are now passing onto your child to pay for.

10-year-old Liam’s parents might be giving him $20/week in allowance but expect him to pay his lunch bill out of this amount. And if you give your child $20/week from overhearing this from his mother, but haven’t passed on the same money responsibility to your own child, then your child would be getting a lot more than Liam to burn through.

It’s best to get a range idea of what others are receiving, then ultimately come to your own conclusion once you figure out the money responsibilities your own child will have to meet with the money.

Alright, all that aside, it turns out that the average going rate for an allowance is $8.74/week.

This was found after polling 10,000 parents of kids aged 4-14, across the U.S.

Average allowance by age, from the 2017 RoosterMoney.com study:

AgeAverage Allowance Amount (Per Week)
4$3.97
5$4.89
6$5.81
7$7.30
8$7.66
9$8.20
10$9.00
11$10.10
12$10.96
13$12.10
14$13.34

When Should You Start Giving Your Child an Allowance?

There’s actual research that shows kids are capable of learning how to save money around the age of 5 or 6.

But guess what? If they don’t actually get a consistent amount of money at that age via your Allowance System…then you’re missing out on a critical money stage.

Pssst: is your child over 5 or 6 years of age and you’re now wondering if you missed out? I’m not into scaremongering; you can definitely still teach your child what you’d like them to know, starting from any age. In fact, statistics show that the majority of parents who give an allowance start at around the age of 8.